Welcome to my World

Quite a number of times I’ve tried to pen something down for my blog and I get stuck in between lines. I often realise it’s not for want of ideas…..sooo many things to write about but more often that not I put myself in the shoes of the reader wondering if they would ever find the piece catchy or interesting. This lead me to ask, what makes a great blog? Opinions differ greatly depending on whose view you are taking but personally I LOVE a blog that would keep me engaged! I like when a topic is well researched robustly laid out and the language is interesting.

Can I say I’ve scored very high in this areas……well hold on guys, aint going to be the judge in my own case but I strive to keep it interesting.

Some folks are born writers, no matter how long the writing, ability to keep the readers glued is never in question. I have had the opportunity to read great blogs and I hope one day “tripen’s odyssey” would be mentioned in that light.

9/11 Memorial

It’s been ten years since the extremist gave us a new insight into the word “terror”. I can still remember vividly the scene and thoughts when the first plane slammed into one of the towers – American was under siege and how would they survive this? That they have survived it is an understatement but over the years their resilience has grown in abundance. The broken down structures are being put up once again and in retrospect, the extremist must now think what a foolhardy venture to have embarked on. They have been hunted down, and their hierarchy is being decimated.
While it’s now ten years since this act of cowardice took place, the world has never and might never be the same. At every turn of each decade, the evil men perpetrate goes deeper. I sincerely know this does not define us as human because in every chaos and peril, the courage and bravery of men and women speaks for generations to come.

To the ones we lost on 9/11, continue to Rest in Peace.

Place of worship

Its 12:38am and am sitting on my bed lost in thought…….. Ear plugs tightly secured, listening to midnight RnB tunes from my favourite station. It has been tough these past few weeks but eyes on the price cause it is too early to give up. Religion, Family, Education, Emotions, Relationships, Money and Work: all fighting for attention, slowly draining every fibre of my muscle.
It has been ages since I posted anything here……. am not going to give excuse, am flat out guilty. I however hope things would improve from now on.
This week I would be writing on an issue that could somehow be touchy for a few folks. In this part of the world, spirituality and religion are two sides of the same coin that people hold on to dearly. More often than not, I ask myself, why do people go to church? While I can’t deny the impact it has on the lives of people, I however do ask myself “to what extent does the economic situation in Nigeria push people through the door of churches? Would the level of devotion and enthusiasm increase in a commensurate manner after request is answered? ”
The growth of churches has been phenomenal since the early 80’s and continues to grow at an exponential rate. This however has not decreased the level of moral decadence nor crime. I really get perturbed as to why there is no correlation between the two.
I dislike jumping from church to church, so this past week when I was invited to a friend’s church I decided to attend as a sign of regard and respect. Well in as much as I don’t want to delve into the nitty gritty of what the session was like, I found myself detached from some thing around me. Time management was zero and celebration of people getting visa went on and on. Beside me, a guy was actually holding his passports, raising it from time to time.
I sincerely hope we translate and apply “the God principles” being preached from our different places of worship into our everyday lives and make this country a better place to live in.

ciao

Dear Blog,

dear blog,

It’s been a long time. missed you. Had loads on my mind and hand, really glad to be back. while i was away Barca gave Man Utd a footballing lesson, Goodluck Jonathan was sworn in as the president of Nigeria, Obama was in Europe and the middle east uprising is still on. Missed my friends on BUNIBUNI, really hope to talk to them VERY soon. have to go now. peace!!!

From my Twitter

These are some of the tweets I get on my tweeter account, just wanted to share them with you.

Any woman can seek a successful man be but only a true woman can support a man prior to his success.

It’s much easier to turn friendship into love than love into friendship

Fat girls can cook…….pretty girls look good in picture………ugly girls are funny……..looking

Don’t make decision when you are angry and don’t make promises when you are happy

Women are so greedy, the want all things from one man. Men are so simple, they want one thing from all women

Honesty is the key to a successful relationship, if that person cannot respect you for being truthful, they are not worth your time.

Never fight with ugly people, they have nothing to lose

There is a good chance you don’t like me but there is a better chance I don’t care

#things that piss me off – Ten year olds complaining they are single – hilarious rather than piss me off

Jega (verb)- to unceremoniously cancel an election or a planned program, to plan poorly. I Jegad my party.

It is not the effort that makes the guy smile, it is the willingness of guys to make those crazy effort just to make her smile

If you love someone….truly love someone, you would put aside foolish pride and fear and and love them without regret

A man must be big enough to admit his mistakes, smart enough to profit from them and strong enough to correct them

Dang, i’m nuts. GOD IS GOOD

Change in view?

Finally Nigerians went to the polls over the weekend. While it was seen to be free and fair the result has however thrown up some big shock results especially in the South-West where the Action Congress has reversed almost if not all the gains the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) made in the 2007 election. Big names such as Dimeji Bankole – speaker of the house of representative, Iyabo Obasanjo-Bello – daughter of the former president, Olusegun Agagu, Chimaroke Nnamani and Orji Kalu, all former Governors lost their senatorial bids. In as much as I don’t want to be forward in declaring that Nigerians now know better, I am of the opinion this might be the wake up call for a change that has been in the pipeline.

Woke up last weekend to the reality that the electioneering process has started, well for one, the test of our democracy will begin with an end to intolerance, violence and hatred. Election should be championed and won on strength of ideological differences not on whose thug is best armed. Claims and counter claims of intimidation, incarceration of political opponent using the power of incumbency has been so widespread that I sincerely hope the cases of discontent that end up with the judiciary would be minimal and not derail the handover plan.

Elective posts are up for grabs at local, state and federal government level but at this stage, the one that touches the heart and soul of every Nigerian is the fight for the highest seat in the land, the Presidency. Various contestants are laying claim to being the best candidate and this they do by pointing to previous achievements either in public or private practices. What I would be doing is using the SWOT ANALYSIS to help put each of the front-runners under the spotlight. Do they really have anything to offer or just an empty barrel making the loudest noise and seeking political office for money-making venture?
The swot analysis is a strategic planning tool which simply means analysing an organisation or individual using the strength, weakness, opportunity and threat open to it. The strength would show the characteristics of the team (president and vice president) that place them at advantage over their competition while the weaknesses are the things that place the team at a disadvantage over their competition. Opportunity would be dealing with chances available to make a statement and lastly threats seek to look at external elements in the environment that seeks to cause trouble for the team.

JONATHAN GOODLUCK AND NNAMADI SAMBO

STRENGTH: As the incumbent, the team enjoy being at the helm of affairs and also with the party that has been in power for the past twelve years. They have shown by their campaign few could muster the access to funds to dislodge them from the exalted seat. Jonathan is seen as an element of luck, has never contested an election as the main flag bearer but at every level and post he has been in since 1999 (deputy governor and vice president) he has succeeded his masters due to reasons which include – corruption charges, death and by being ‘loyal’. The option of Sambo as the vice president gives a sense of stability and continuity.

WEAKNESS: Yaradua the former boss of Jonathan was seen a slow leader, always stalling on issues and that assertion shielded the current president on so many front with regards to his capability on the job. It is alarming to note that the same can be said of President Jonathan since he took over the mantle of leadership. Government policies, passage and signing of bills, effectiveness of governance has been moving at a very slow pace. Patiently the citizenry continue to live on promises and are starting to look at alternatives.

OPPORTUNITY: As an individual that has experienced leadership and around the corridors of power for the past twelve years, Jonathan stands head and shoulder-high above his contemporaries to deliver to the people and electorates their yearnings and aspirations. Within his grasp is the opportunity to change the perception of continuous bad leadership that has been plaguing the country as a whole for ages

THREAT: A perception of having robbed the northerners the chance to continue with the presidency of the deceased former President, Musa Yaradua despite the internal 2 terms rotational arrangement of the ruling People’s Democratic Party is an issue that has remain unresolved and everyone waits with baited breath to see if the new alliance and strategy would backfire. Jonathan has been seen as a loyal person but with this event, the world now sees that power-hungry instinct in the ‘loyalty cloud’ of the president.

NUHU RIBADU AND FOLA ADEOLA

STRENGTH: Flying the banner of the Action Congress of Nigeria is the former chairman of the Economic and Financial Corruption Commission of Nigeria (EFCC), with his vice a technocrat and former Managing Director of Guaranty Trust Bank. Together they bring dynamism, impetus, youthfulness and freshness to the polity. Although perceived to have done the bidding of His former benefactor in the person of former president Obasanjo, Ribadu was able to bring to fore the seriousness of corruption in Nigeria by rigorously going after private and public government officials even those that were perceived as untouchables. Adeola’s track record at the helm of affairs of one of the best banks in Nigeria is enviable and speaks volume of what might be expected.

WEAKNESS: The perception of carrying out selective justice and clamping the wheels of outspoken critic of the former president is an albatross that would always hang over the head of Ribadu while his running mate is seen as untested in a political terrain that is noted for its notoriety and a polity different from the structured and disciplined environment of the private establishment. Ability to work together is an important factor that ranks so high considering the fact that Fola Adeola was not the first choice running mate.

OPPORTUNITY: The pair represents a shift in ideology and orientation of main stream political strategy in Nigeria. A risk it might seem but after showing they are able to hold their own from previous endeavours the opportunity that presents itself to these two is so enormous that one hopes they won’t be overwhelmed if voice and mandate is given to their course.

THREAT: Several northerners are running for the presidency hoping that they enjoy sympathy vote because of the death of former northern president who failed to finish his term. This will definitely lead to fractioning of block votes that would have been enjoyed by a single candidate. How this will affect the chances of Ribadu cannot be swept under the carpet or over emphasised. Through its access to massive funds, the ruling PDP have made it clear by its various publicity and campaign strategy it would not give up the seat of power without a fight.

MOHAMMADU BUHARI AND TUNDE BAKARE:

STRENGTH: A former military Head of State and a fiery pastor, both are strong-willed and hard liners, attributes some analyst think is required by a team who wants to rule the state called Nigeria. Buhari enjoys cult followership in the northern region and seems to be one of the VERY few public servants who retire from service without millions in foreign account to show for it. Bakare on the other hand is a vocal critic of past corrupt government and has used His pulpit at every given opportunity for that purpose. Their passion for a vibrant, strong and progressive Nigeria if put to good use can help lead this country out of this Quagmire

WEAKNESS: This team is seen as a time bomb waiting to explode and an alliance termed unstable in so many quarters. Two religious hardliners from different faith, one wonders what the game plan is. A school of thought even wonders if Buhari can conveniently work genuinely with those of other faith considering its former vice president (Tunde Idiagbon) was of the Islamic faith orientation while Bakare is a Muslim by birth before conversion to Christianity. The idea of former Military dictators coming back in civilian garments to position of power is something I frown at. What did they leave behind that they are coming to pick and it’s not that they are seeking higher positions, just the same one they vacated.

OPPORTUNITY: Passion is an ingredient that is essential in every human being, and if the passion shown by Bakare as a critic of Government can be channelled towards its administration if given position of power, they will be a force to reckon with. During His previous stint in power, discipline was a watchword as a nation but truth be said Buhari was a Military dictator then and no sane individual will avoid bowing to the power of the gun trotting soldiers on the road.

THREAT: The ability of the citizenry to absolutely trust this union and marriage of necessity would be the greatest threat to this team. Too many northerners gunning for the post of the president or vice president would lead to fragmentation of votes thereby jeopardising any chance they might have. On a previous stint at power, Buhari picked a Yoruba man as vice president and has done the same this time around. This raises the question ‘does he have anything against other ethnic groups?’ or ‘is being around a particular race more re-assuring for him?’ not to sound racist, strategy demands that since most candidates have left the Igbo tribe out of the equation, their block vote would be decisive in determining who gets the nod eventually.

Some sections of the populace see Bakare as a prophet of doom considering His previous utterances and visions ‘having said Obasanjo would not see out his presidency’ and his many squabbles with respected pastors of Winners chapel and Redeemed church, two organisations with millions as devoted followers. How these puzzle and intrigue in strategy play out in a multi level equation is keeping everyone deeply interested.

IBRAHIM SHEKARAU AND JOHN OYEGUN:

STRENGTH: Governor of kano and former governor of Edo state respectively their combination reflect the ability to stick with the known phrase ‘status quo’ no risk involved. Shekarau has since the debates shown qualities that have endeared him to some critics as an eloquent and an articulated aspirant that knows his onions. In Oyegun, he possesses a vice that has been in the main stream politics since the second republic. Before I decided to write this piece, it would have been impossible to write 5 straight lines concerning the person Shekarau but having taking time out to study, I realise he possesses some qualities that make him a popular figure in his domain. A mathematics teacher, he rose through the ranks through hard work and is seen as able to tolerate opposing views, oppositions and people of other religion.

WEAKNESS: Sticking to the status quo with the choice of Shekarau and Oyegun leaves much to be desired. Opinion polls show people are looking to depart from this present crop of leader, they are looking for new ideas, thinking and progressiveness. How much popularity they pull and enjoy with the electorate would be tested at the polls.

OPPORTUNITY: Presenting a team that has been around since the second republic has its benefits as they would not be learning on the job. The man Shekarau can use the policies that have endeared him to the population of Kano as a spring-board to effect change nationwide.

THREAT: I am of the opinion that this team is open to the same threat as others, ability to summon resources for campaign that would publicise his policies and track record to the populace is missing, fragmentation of votes and lack of trust from young voters might also be a disadvantage.

In summary, I will not be naming a candidate but will leave that to you guys the readers though going by what I see on ground, ability to reach the nook and crannies of the states would be a big factor and one party seems to be doing that through its campaign strategy. It is so sad that at this stage, age and time, empty promises are all what the campaigns have been about, all the parties are guilty of these, promising security is never the problem, but can you articulate the position of insecurity now and in 3 statements state how it would be curbed. What is the statistics on unemployment? How could the health sector be improved? We are literate not to just listen to promises of ‘I will improve security’, ‘I will reduce unemployment’, and ‘illiteracy will be tackled’. Presidential debate has been dodged and when appearances are made the press ask silly question of individuals seeking to hold the highest public office in the land…..how lame! For a country like Nigeria with a population of around 150 million, just two presidential debates organised…uhmmmm I can see how we the citizenry value paying attention to a leader that can show the ability to lead.

By the time you are reading this write-up, the election should be in full gear or so it seems cause INEC is at it again with improper planning which is making them shift the start of voting for the House of Representative and Senatorial seat from the 2nd to the 9th of April. The Election process has been set in motion for over a year and one wonders why they can’t seem to shake the demon that has been at war with them for years.

Postponed Again!!!!

The pointers are all flashing RED, after postponement till Monday the 4th of April, Jega ( New word – verb: to unceremoniously cancel an election or planned program, to plan poorly) Attahiru has decided to postpone AGAIN till next week Saturday the Senatorial and House of Representative election. Is he that confused? What informed the decision to make the shift to Monday the 4th initially? What subtle high level maneuvering or power struggle is playing out in the background? I sincerely hope this is not the beginning of various court cases. I implore Nigerians to still exercise patience and come out en-mass to vote for the right candidates.

On a more hilarious note, that is the biggest April fool in history, played on a country of 150 million Nigerians even though it came on the 2nd . Still cant shout

the god in a father

Each day I meet people of different race, background, color, ideology, orientation, you name it. I count it as a privilege and I try as much as it lies in my power to make each encounter memorable (well at least from my own part). When however the opposite party leaves a mark, it keeps me wondering and engaged.

The Setting: Bunibuni.com
The Business: meet people and mingle
The slogan: A mind-blowing experience

The name and personality radiates exuberance sometimes of an enforcer, a teacher, superior being and with such a voice deep and garnished with confidence. Girls are in love or lust and guys …..uhm cant wait to knock Him of His perch I assume. To most people on the site, no known identity can be attached to the face and that I believe drives the passion to know who this mystery man is, but it also bring along desperation and sometimes frustration. No known picture, just a VOICE recognizable amongst thousands. Our first encounter was on Religion and we went on for hours sometimes defying logic of those in the chat room. Over time, I saw in Him a father figure to some, a writer who does His work with passion, a believer in excellence and knowledge and more so a friend.

His love for Movies, Photography, NFL, Barcelona, gadgets and I assume knowledge is well noted. what more can I say, my view of him might be different from yours (if you know him though) but what ever your conclusion, there is this point reached and you realise he is a like-able person.

His he married? how old His he? His he Ghanaian or Nigerian? how did he become so knowledgeable in so many things? who has seen him before? These and many more questions besiege my heart each time I read His blog.

“Sometimes you meet people for a reason, sometimes for a season but you decide what effect they would have on you” Watch out ’cause you could be on my radar soon.

Our Honorable First Lady

I chuckle anytime I have to listen to Our first lady talk. We’ve seen the finesse of Maryam Babangida, the charisma of Stella Obasanjo and taking it a step higher the Michelle Obama, Hillary Clinton e.t.c. One thing is noted, when they talk people regard them because their facts are cross checked and they exude brilliance. excerpt below are some of the “MOMENTS” that has endeared “our first lady” to our heart, positively or negatively – well that ball is in your court.

” My Husband and Sambo (Vice President) is a good people”

– ” the President was once a child and the senators were once a children”

– ” The people sitting before you here were once a children”

– ” the bombers who born them? wasn’t it not a woman? They were once a children, now a adult, now they are bombing women and children making some children a widow”

-” My heart feels sorry for these children who have become widows by losing their parents for one reason or another”

-” We should have love for our fellow Nigerians irrespective of their NATIONALITY”

I really don’t know how this resonates with the population at large, however deep down within me this level of mediocrity is alarming.